1. Understanding Stalking and Harassment Laws in New York
New York Penal Law defines stalking across four degrees, ranging from fourth-degree stalking (intentional, repeated harassment causing reasonable fear) to first-degree stalking (involving physical injury or credible threats of death). The statute recognizes that stalking behavior, repeated phone calls, messages, surveillance, or unwanted in-person contact, creates psychological harm and safety risk even without physical violence. Courts apply a reasonable-person standard: would a typical person in your circumstances fear for their safety or suffer substantial emotional distress? That threshold is often met with even moderate patterns of contact.
Degrees of Stalking under Penal Law
Fourth-degree stalking requires intentional, repeated harassment causing reasonable fear. Third-degree stalking involves placing you in fear of physical injury or causing substantial emotional distress through multiple acts. Second-degree stalking adds threats of death or serious physical injury. First-degree stalking involves actual physical injury or a pattern of behavior that places you in fear of imminent serious physical injury. Each degree carries escalating penalties, from misdemeanor to felony classification. In practice, these cases are rarely as clean as the statute suggests; prosecutors and judges often grapple with distinguishing genuine fear from isolated incidents or relationship conflict.
2. Filing a Police Report and Creating Documentation
Your first step is to contact your local police precinct and file a formal report. Bring any evidence: screenshots of messages, call logs, photos of unwanted items left at your home, emails, or social media posts. Police will prepare a report that serves as the foundation for both criminal prosecution and civil court filings. Documentation is critical because courts rely on patterns, not single incidents. Keep a stalking log going forward, recording dates, times, locations, and descriptions of each contact or suspicious activity.
What to Include in Your Police Report
Provide the suspect's full name, address, phone number, and workplace if known. Describe the first contact and each subsequent incident in chronological order. Explain how the behavior affects you: do you avoid certain locations, change your routine, or experience sleep disruption or anxiety? Detail any threats, even implied ones. If the stalker has mentioned your workplace, children, or pets, include that. Police may not immediately arrest or charge, but the report creates an official record that prosecutors can use later and that strengthens your civil case.
3. Obtaining an Order of Protection in Family Court
New York Family Court can issue an order of protection (also called a restraining order) that prohibits contact, approach, or harassment. You do not need to file criminal charges first; civil court orders operate independently. File a petition in the Family Court of the county where you live or where the stalking occurred. The court will schedule a hearing, often within 10 to 14 days. If you face imminent danger, request an emergency temporary order of protection that can be issued the same day.
Family Court Procedure and Temporary Orders
Family Court judges in New York routinely handle stalking and harassment petitions and understand the urgency. At the hearing, you testify about the stalking behavior and your fear. The respondent (the accused stalker) has the right to respond and cross-examine you. The judge weighs credibility and the pattern of conduct. If the court finds clear and convincing evidence of harassment or stalking, it issues a final order of protection, typically valid for up to five years. A temporary order, issued before the full hearing, remains in effect during the pendency of the case and carries the same legal weight as a final order.
4. Criminal Prosecution and Coordination with Law Enforcement
Once you file a police report, the decision to prosecute rests with the District Attorney's office. Prosecutors evaluate the evidence and may charge stalking, harassment, menacing, or related offenses depending on the conduct and degree. Your role is to remain available to police and prosecutors, provide additional evidence as requested, and testify if the case proceeds to trial. Many stalking cases resolve through plea agreements or dismissal if the defendant accepts the civil order of protection and complies with it.
Coordination between Civil and Criminal Remedies
Civil orders of protection and criminal prosecution operate in parallel. A violation of a civil order of protection is itself a criminal offense in New York. If the stalker contacts you after the order is issued, report the violation immediately to police. Document each violation with the same rigor as the original stalking. Prosecutors often use a pattern of violations to support felony charges or enhance penalties. Some clients benefit from consulting counsel on both fronts simultaneously; issues related to underreporting allegations and evidence preservation can affect both the civil and criminal strategy.
5. Evidence Preservation and Long-Term Strategy
Preserve all evidence: save text messages, emails, voicemails, and social media posts. Do not delete anything, even if it seems minor. Take screenshots with timestamps. If the stalker leaves physical items, photograph them in place before collecting them. Create backups of digital evidence in case the original is lost or damaged. Some stalkers escalate when they learn a report has been filed, so heighten awareness of your surroundings and inform trusted contacts of the situation.
| Action | Timeline | Outcome |
| File police report | Same day or within 24 hours | Official record created; investigation initiated |
| File Family Court petition for order of protection | Within days of report | Temporary order issued; hearing scheduled within 10–14 days |
| Family Court hearing | 10–14 days after petition | Final order of protection issued (up to 5 years) |
| DA prosecution decision | Weeks to months | Criminal charges filed or case declined |
Stalking cases require sustained attention to evidence and procedure. The interplay between police documentation, civil court orders, and criminal prosecution can feel fragmented, but each step reinforces the others. Evaluate early whether you need counsel to coordinate these filings and to ensure your evidence is presented effectively. Consider also whether gift tax reporting or other civil matters may be affected by the stalker's conduct or your financial circumstances. Moving forward, prioritize safety, document meticulously, and do not delay reporting to police or filing for court protection.
10 Feb, 2026
